life lessons for every year

And finally, my last post for 2009.

As we continue on the journey we call "life" it's good to remember the basics. In this turbulent, uncivil society that we seem to find ourselves it's up to us to put it all in perspective and not be taken in by the rudeness around us.

And so as we end this decade, here are 10 of my favorite “life lessons” written by Regina Brett, of The Plain Dealer, Cleveland, Ohio. Perfect reminders for the spirit of the holidays.

1. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.

2. Don’t compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.

3. It’s never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.

4. What other people think of you is none of your business.

5. Your children only get one childhood.

6. Yield.

7. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.

8. Over prepare, then go with the flow.

9. Get rid of anything that isn’t useful, beautiful or joyful.

10. Life isn’t tied with a bow, but it’s still a gift.

You can read all 50 of Regina's life lessons here.